Those who know me only through my blog or other social media outlets know me as a singular person. Rebekah Hope. But to those who run in the circles of friends and family I am one part of a duet known as “Bekah and Jordan” or more commonly “The Ward Girls”. One part is rarely without the other. My sister and I share something special. Actually, we share most everything – an apartment, a car, clothing, and countless other things. We’re rarely apart. We don’t think twice about it. It’s our “normal”. Neither realizes how abnormal or unique this relationship is until we get the funny looks and the exclamations of “It’s so great you and your sister can do that! My siblings and I could never…”
People have told us that we bicker like an old married couple. We laugh, because we know it’s true. But it’s taught us how to resolve conflicts quickly. There is so much we have learned from each other and continue to learn. After so many years doing everything together it took a bit to adjust to the fact that we have completely separate interests. She can spend hours doing crafts of all kinds (knitting, quilting, sewing, etc. I swear the girl is a 70 year old woman in a 21 year olds body) leaving me completely bored. While I spend hours writing and she’s probably read only about a half dozen of my blog posts.
One of the things that I’m most grateful for is that Jordan has taught me how to laugh at myself. I take things way too seriously and make a dramatic big deal out of just about everything. She makes me see things through her eyes and realize how ridiculous I’m being. Jordan reminds me of this verse from Proverbs 31, “She is clothed with strength and dignity and laughs without fear of the future.” So often she sees the bigger picture, therefore finding it easier to laugh in the present. There are few things I enjoy more than laughing with my sister.
I have only to look at Jordan to be reminded of the redemptive power of God. There is no way that we would have a relationship apart from Him. I am in awe of the miracle that took place in our relationship 8 years ago and consider it an honor to be a part of this duo. What a privilege to be associated with such a God-fearing, talented, and beautiful young woman!
Jordan, I am so proud of the woman you are growing into. Each talent amazes me with your handmade dresses, beautiful quilts, woven jewelry and perfect pie crusts. Every day I see your heart transformed to look more and more like Jesus. You have the heart of a servant in every way. Thank you for working so tirelessly to serve me. You never complain, though you have every right to. I am so grateful for the example you set for me. I thank God for you, my precious sister. I love you.